ALL THINGS ARE JUST AS THEY ARE
Things don't cause suffering in themselves. Attachment to them is the cause of suffering.
Everything is what it is. However, as soon as we have a preference 'it' is changed.
The 'thing' can be all-things, nothing, neither all or none, and both all and none - simultaneously. How we perceive 'it' creates the result - our reality of 'it'.
Bring this awareness to the forefront; use it wisely, and the illusion of suffering will dissolve.